February 2025
February shows the way through. It is the answer not only for the month and the year but also for your whole life if you would allow and welcome it. February is a month of joining, a month of giving and love. It is the path of joy, transformation and miracles. It is a way to save time and have you begin enjoying so much more in your life. It brings new meaning and shows you how to demonstrate the joy of simply loving everything and everyone. February is a month to win yourself back, to learn how to come from a center of peace no matter what is occurring in the outside world. It is opening to the power of transcendence. It remembers the essence of forgiveness that makes the way easier, that if something is not love, it’s a call for help, a call for love. When you see life in this way, it’s hard to hold a grievance.
“The Holy Spirit teaches us how to behold our brother through His eyes and love him as He does.” A Course in Miracles. Your natural response to a call for help is for you to extend yourself not judge the one asking for help. Some of you in your life will be put in seemingly impossible situations. These could be vastly complex and have roots beyond this life and you won’t know how to respond. But it is never Heaven’s way that there isn’t a way through. Your love and presence is the answer. If anything else is called for from you you will be inspired and guided to it. Otherwise be present and extend yourself. Your love makes all the difference. This is what you have come to do. This is both your purpose and destiny all in one. Your love as it is given invites Heaven’s Love. When you have faith in the Tao and its unfolding, you know there is a better way that this event is meant to lead you to. Faith is seeing beyond the illusion that appears to be true. Yet you can only have faith if you accept what is happening for acceptance allows the situation to further unfold toward truth and peace. Without acceptance there can be no faith because you are busy opposing what is happening. If you fight or judge something you are reinforcing it as if it were true and needed to be fought against. Have faith there is a world beyond this one that you can perceive. This is what A Course in Miracles calls the real world. It is the Garden, the Paradise that God created but was covered over by our choice for separation. This separation is an independence that is dissociated because it is based on the pain and refusal of a victim situation still inside you that keeps you in vicious circles of sacrifice and indulgences. This dissociated independence is what the ego is and its whole agenda is to find a way to separate. It is not interested in joy because joy melts the ego and the twisted perception it provides. Joining and partnership are against the ego’s religion. This is the dark religion of being right at all costs and having its way. This keeps relationships stuck in competition, fighting and deadness, whereas bonding and partnership are the answer that frees you and others. The Holy Spirit provides an alternative to competition and its goal of specialness. Extending yourself in love is the alternative and the solution. If you have a partner that always wants to be right it shows you how much the desire to be right is still inside you. Yet, what your partner wants even more than being right is being understood, being known and being loved so if you join them the difference and disagreement falls away. As a result there is a step forward and a new line of bonding that contains a new aspect of partnership to enjoy bringing with it ease and freedom. This may seem paradoxical but most of the solutions that bring about graduation from independence to interdependence are paradoxical such as letting go, trust and commitment. As you move into partnership you consider more than just yourself. In joining another mind to yours your heart opens for your partner and your relationship. This helps the world and it helps Heaven help the world. Being right and having to have your way shows you the amount of fear, insecurity and guilt there is still inside you. Love, extending yourself and joining heals this pain of loss whether you are the giver or the receiver. All the world is reflecting the chaos in your mind and when you give or receive it brings the natural order that comes with truth. It is the choice to use the Holy Spirit part of your mind rather than the ego part. This is the key lessons we have come to learn and to replace all the judgment your have in our mind with blessings and these blessings are what you extend to the world with love to help free it.
February is meant to be a month of love and bonding. You can use every present challenge in your life and the trauma of having failed in the past to turn challenges into success this month by joining instead of judging. Receive the love and where love is needed you and Heaven can provide it. Behind every nightmare past or present, there is a Gateway to a new chapter, a new level of consciousness. But you can only find the Gateway in a trauma through leading with your love. Christ found the Gateway through the crucifixion to the resurrection showing the power of love and joining. Christ demonstrated a most powerful lesson of love in an extreme situation and found the Gateway through loving in every circumstance. He was not the victim of that situation. He was the Master of it. Only love masters any situation bringing miracles. In passing through such an extreme lesson, Christ guaranteed that it was not necessary that we go through such an extreme circumstance but with our love and the Holy Spirit’s Love you can go through and learn every lesson with grace stepping into a new level of consciousness and vibrancy. Do not be overwhelmed and victimized by whatever is happening in your life or in the world. Be centered. Be at peace. Rest in God and respond with love to whatever is happening. Extend your love and God’s Love. Share your gifts. Many extreme circumstances occur in order to help motivate you to find the powerful gift waiting for your discovery within that the situation and the world desperately need. God created us in His Likeness with all of His gifts. This may exactly be such a time when one of those gifts are needed. As A Course in Miracles states, “I am as God created me. I am His Child eternally.”
To remember you are one with God and one with Love Itself is the answer to everything. As you realize this more and more, you become Self-Realized and a Gateway for all of Heaven’s gifts to come down through you to this lost and desperate world. Every circumstance just waits for your love to extend out to help it. You can learn Divine Surrender in which you join every circumstance and open the Gateway to the miracle and to Heaven on earth. This is your calling. This is your Power. Your love and God’s Love through you makes everything you are called to do easy. Heaven is joy and for you pure enjoyment. Your love is what brings Heaven to earth. You are God’s Child. He sent you to find your way home to Him bringing your brothers and sisters. Be at peace. You are loved. Not one soul shall fall from God’s Loving embrace. This is what you came for. This is Who you are. Become the Prince or Princess of Peace you have come to be. You are one with God. What else needs be said?
Chuck Spezzano
Nightlight Newsletter
February 2025
Turtle Bay, Oahu