January 2026
The year 2026 is a birth year and a crucial year. The first month sets the stage for patterns of the whole year. You can decide right now, for this next year, if you would have an easy birth or a difficult one. An easy birth is accomplished by partnering with Heaven in every circumstance. Your feeling of innocence naturally dictates peace. If you don’t feel innocent, give the punishment you feel your guilt deserves back to Heaven’s Trading Post and receive Its gifts in return. If you have an easy birth in 2026, it will be because you followed a path of peace, healing and faith.
Peace was planted deep within us at creation. It can extend out to the whole world to give it the rest it so badly needs. Peace emerges from deep within you as you include everyone around you with its warm embrace, excluding no one. If you keep a grievance, a little wall of hate, you will banish peace from yourself, your children and the world that so desperately needs your compassion and not your judgment. Everyone you have a grievance with was put on this earth in order for you to learn a soul lesson. To learn this lesson everyone must be innocent, including you. To the extent you fail another, you feel hatred for them and feel their hatred. It is this hatred and the hatred that comes from every heartbreak that is poisoning the world. There is a direct correlation between innocence, faith and peace. These are essential to the stairway to Heaven. Without them, you will lose your way. If you are not innocent, no one is. If everyone is not innocent, neither are you.
Let the Holy Spirit guide you as it is the Tao unfolding your life in the highest possible way, given what needs to be healed in order to have your soul realize itself as eternal spirit. Forgive those who you feel victimized you. You used them to give you permission to separate and be independent so you could do things your way. It is at these times that tantrums, “schtiks”, sabotage, fear and rebellion began inside to hold you back. The havoc and traumatic dramas in your life began there, as a result. Your unhappiness began as your ego interpreted past events and used it for separation that caused you pain. Let the Holy Spirit, the arbiter for Heaven, interpret past painful events for you. Give the Tao a resting place in your mind and it will interpret your hatred as a cause to bring love and peace into your life. It will show you that your forgiveness of others frees you from your ancient mistakes. The path of peace calls for a still mind because it is a still mind that hears the Call of God. This is the Voice of Love that will transform your life into the path of peace that will give so many around you needed rest. When you have peace, you become like a little child. This was the prerequisite that Jesus said was necessary to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
Heaven is not a place. It is an awareness of the Oneness and bliss inside you. Welcome it. Share it. It is found by love, peace and innocence. It is entered by faith like the faith little children have in the love of their parents. Faith and peace and the wholeness that comes of healing have the same dynamics. To bring one, brings them all.
The seeds and patterns of 2026 are found in the first month, so what is done in January has repercussions for the whole year. Let it be a year of peace which dissolves all problems. Let the appeal of love wash away all barriers between you and anyone you have projected the parts within you that you don’t want, in an attempt to push guilt away from you.
Remember that the grievances you hold against anyone, you hold against everyone, including those you love the most. Let the appeal of love wash away the hatred and self-hatred that you have used against others in your desire to separate and be independent. The more you fight to do things your way, the more you feel you have to carry the world on your shoulders. Let it all go. Let Heaven carry the load and be in charge of it all. “You need do nothing” as A Course in Miracles states. It is important to recognize that any disappointment at succeeding in bringing peace and creating an easy birth for the world is just your ambivalence about your purpose as well as the peace it brings. This is ego’s need to be right and make so many others wrong. Your need to be right can be relinquished to the Holy Spirit and by this you welcome the unfolding of an easy birth. Your surety and faith in what you want gives you the focus that reduces fear. Fear can only be present when there are judgments and attack thoughts because these, then, boomerang back to you. Fear seeks guilt to sustain itself. Love has faith in itself and extends this faith to all it sees and this heals fear.
There are two paths ahead. One is the destruction of the world through judgment, fear and guilt. The other is the path of love that is forever restoring unity and the path to Heaven. Love and faith lead to an easy birth in spite of what is pushing through the collective unconscious to be healed. Both love and fear send out messages into the world, and each brings back the messages for which it was sent. Fear brings fearful messages, while love brings back messages of healing and reassurance that your faith is justified. Choose now what path you will follow and, if you wander into faithlessness from the path of love and its faithful certainty, call on the Holy Spirit to bring you back to the path that leads to Wholeness and Heaven.
Heaven is inside you, as it is Oneness, and it is part of you as you are part of it. It became part of you as God extended Himself in Love at creation. It has never left you. It is inside, never to be changed as it is God’s Will. Yet, it has been covered over with illusions of pain, darkness and separation. Lifetimes of choices for separation created fear, guilt and darkness instead of love, wonder and delight. Every act of kindness and generosity brings more light. Every act of compassion frees us and others of the prisons we made with the beliefs that constrain us. Over time, these became collective beliefs. Time, with its past and future, replaced the present and si, while space became separation and distance, rather than the proximity of love.
Great strides can be made both in January and in 2026 to return to our original state, before we began to collectively believe in separation and the world of problems it made. Divine Love has come to free us and have 2026 be a year of greater spirituality and a confluence of grace, in spite of the challenges from both inside and out. Greater spirituality simply means more love and joy: greater friendship leading to greater unity and the realization that in this world we have the same goal for happiness. We are on the same team with the same goal. Everyone is playing their part to show us our hidden mind that we came to give and forgive, that we might bridge and join with others. The purpose is so that we can share with others and extend to them our blessings, thus feeling the grace of our blessings to restore more of the wholeness and peace within us and in the world. Our mind can come together more this month and year as we realize that what is outside us is what we have inside us. As we realize that the inner and outer are connected, we regain our power to heal and make change.
Starting in December there was an emergence of rare gifts that can heal and unify as you go forward with your healings and the unfolding of your spiritual practice. As your path emerges more fully, you will begin seeing these gifts more and more. Trust the process. As the need in the world gets stronger, so will the gifts, grace and miracles. Choose not to fear; choose rather the path of faith instead, as faith shows where to truly invest your mind. You can choose faith and it will be done for you especially as you give yourself to others. The gifts waiting to emerge are simple but profound. They are timesavers. They are fun. They are timeless. They are profound. They are yours. If you are in Business, there will be business gifts. If you are in healing, there will be healing gifts. For everyone, there will be parenting gifts as you forgive your parents. There will be relationship gifts for everyone as you forgive your partner and past partners. Ask for the holy relationship. When you receive the gifts of the holy relationship, they are given to the world also.
I want you to acknowledge yourself as the winner you are. I want you to recognize all the places you deferred and hid your gifts out of fear of sibling competition, then hid yourself and felt guilty about how gifted you are and what your gifts are. If you win truly, you share generously. If you lose, you learn. You learn that everything that happens in your life is for your benefit as gifts of love or for your learning and healing. Resistance to loss increases pain. If you attack yourself, you miss the lesson and increase the length of time your learning will take.
With the energy of this year being so high it is important not to get caught in indulgence because that leads to a vicious circle of sacrifice. Don’t get caught in guilt because there is a vicious circle between guilt, fear and sacrifice. In A Course in Miracles, it states the only thing Heaven wants you to sacrifice is sacrifice. Stay focused. If you put attention of the year on your body for pleasure or pain, you will bring fear and slow your process. But if you make the year about faith, you will know safety and joy. With faith you welcome the lesson plus the love and grace that brings miracles.
Great opportunities will abound in 2026 if you have the boldness to be open to them. Remember if things are conflicted and troubling, ask to look at it through Mother Mary’s eyes and experience her blessings of Oneness. From the perspective of Oneness, all you see is Love, which is Oneness. Surrender your ego and inherit the world. If you are caught in fear, say these words over and over again until you are at peace: “I will not use this as a sign of sin, destruction and death. I will not use this as an obstacle to peace but as a means to peace.” As this is repeated over and over again the film and layers of illusion dissolve and peace is restored.
The birth of the Christ in you this year is the remembrance of Oneness between you and everyone and then with God Himself. It is a tapestry born of love, tied together with bonding, but this has been covered over and over again with guilt and blame. The way to peace is to forgive everyone for everything. To find unity within your own mind through faith and peace is to find brotherhood and sisterhood within extending outward to all. If you exempt anyone from innocence, you exempt yourself. Grievances, judgments and separation are used by your ego to hide your guilt. The path of peace means forgiving everyone until you are free. Your judgment on others attempts to hide your old or ancient guilt now projected on another. Everything and everyone you see, and experience, comes from your thoughts. In A Course in Miracles it states, “To change the world is but to change your mind about yourself.”
As Buddha said, “It’s all a dream and it is my mind that makes the dream.” The path of transcendence in order to bring Heaven to earth is to have no adversaries. Anything you have not forgiven becomes a place of self-attack within yourself. Illness is but self-attack made into a grievance toward another and then inflicted on the body as a symptom. Your forgiveness frees others as it frees you. Where your brother suffers is where he needs your forgiveness for what you thought he did wrong. When you forgive someone enough, you see another’s loveliness emerge. When you forgive completely you see Christ, Buddha or Quan Yin in their glory. Clear the world of adversaries and you but clean all the adversaries, in your own mind, that attack you. As you give others your forgiveness, they give you theirs. And the mistakes you see in your world, which you have turned into sin, have shown you your hidden and projected guilt. Whether it was inherited from “past lives”, or from your ancestors, it is yours to heal, and you can do it easily with Heaven’s help. In every instance where you suffered, you were attacking yourself many times over using another to attack you.
Any attack you see around you is your attack. Sooner or later, it will get to you personally. Any war you see in the world is an ancient war still within you. You can forgive it until there is peace. Famines, floods, earthquakes and tsunamis are all part of your ancient unhealed lessons that can be learned now. In A Course in Miracles it states, “Redemption has been given to you to give to your brothers and thus receive it. Whom you forgive is free, and what you give you share. Forgive the sins your brother thinks he has committed, and all the guilt you think you see in him.” As you give another his forgiveness and redemption, he will give you yours. This is the difference of whether 2026 is a cataclysmic event or a sweet spiritual one. What you perceive and experience is all you. As John Donne said in his famous poem, “Ask not for whom the bell tolls, it tolls for thee.” What you see in the world is what you believe about yourself.
Belief in adversaries is a split you make in your mind that leads you away from life in the same way as traps of guilt, judgment and attack. You are always attacking yourself with judgment, but you can only judge the one you see in the mirror. What you see in the world is all your projection. All you see in the world is what you have projected out. A Course in Miracles states that you can instead join your brother in gladness, having lifted the heavy burden of sin that both of you have placed upon him, and toss it away lightly. As you give him your redemption, he will give you yours. “There is no grace of Heaven that you cannot offer to your brother and receive from your most holy Friend, the Holy Spirit.” A Course in Miracles.
What brings birth to 2026 is partnership. You can give every relationship you have to the Holy Spirit to replace it with a holy relationship. This removes all the emotions, all power struggle, all deadness in your relationship, making it all about you. These are just a cover and compensation for your pain, guilt and failure. As all this is removed, there is only love. In a holy relationship, you realize that any problem you see is your problem and you take responsibility for it, for only by taking responsibility can you change it.
What makes you safe is your faith, and not the faithlessness of judgment. Trust the process. You need do nothing if you trust in Heaven. You can keep repeating these words from A Course in Miracles, “I need do nothing.” And each time it will remove a personal, ego film that has distorted your mind, your brother and the world. What can make this year holy is your total reliance on Heaven. “You must become like a little child to enter the Kingdom of God,” said Jesus. Do only what you are guided to do. Until then relax, let it be. Healing brings wholeness and peace. Forgiveness does the same. They bridge and unite. They bring your mind to generosity and to Heaven by not supporting your ego and what is unimportant.
2026 can be a year of happy surprises, rather than rude awakenings. Choose now what you want and, if at any time you get knocked off of Heaven’s path, ask to be restored to it with Holy Family Bonding. Bless any situation with the soul gift you have for it. You can ask the Holy Spirit to take you back to the root of the present problem and ask for Holy Family Bonding there, giving your gift for the situation and receiving Heaven’s grace. Where you are wounded, you can ask the Holy Spirit to look at the incident that is certainly a soul lesson and see it through eyes of God’s love and mercy. Forgive yourself for your thoughts that made your perception and experience of pain and separation. What could you possibly want by having that happen and losing in such a way? The ego builds itself through the distortion of pain. What could you possibly be trying to prove to have that painful experience happen? What did you think you would gain by losing? Besides yourself, who were you attacking by having that trauma occur? What guilt were you trying to pay off by that experience that only added more guilt to it. Did you use it for independence, control and having things your way, and were willing to pay the price of pain for it? What you gained through separation was pain, dissociation and the inability to receive. That was a mistake you blamed another for, but it can now be corrected. Bless yourself and everyone. Invite God’s grace into that incident and let it be corrected. With Heaven’s help, bring the healing and grace all the way up to the present.
Look out on the world and all the pain being inflicted on God’s children. These separations are those who feel crucified and give pain in an attempt to not feel it in themselves. We are called to end the heritage of pain passed on by the crucified by healing every vestige of pain still clinging to us that darkens our mind. We are called to forgive ourselves for our participation in the network of pain. As we forgive and release those who passed their suffering on to us, we can forgive ourselves for passing it on to others. Hiding the pain that contains guilt projects what is hidden onto others. What you perceive is what you think you are. Let us forgive those passing on pain. They are our ancient past life selves, and they can help us remember love that is needed in the practical form of forgiveness. Start by forgiving yourself and your family, past partners and parents for every little thing that upset you. If you can see one person as totally innocent, they become your gateway home. Forgiveness is a giving forth, a powerful practical form of love. Forgive the weather, forgive the wars, forgive the traffic, forgive those calling for help and for love, forgive the floods and the earthquakes and anything that seems to threaten your peace. Forgive the sick and the needy – you have been there and part of your mind is still caught there and so will be caught again. Forgive the world that you have come to save and it will save you in turn.
Any mistake you see in the world is a mistake in your mind that has yet to be corrected. You could have peace instead of this. Forgive the mistake. It is an opportunity to heal the hidden parts of you, that is the secret cache of guilt the ego holds onto to keep itself together. As you forgive you move toward the holy Presence that contains both you and the Divine. As you see the holy Presence in another you find it in yourself and 2026 becomes an easy birth. Your peace is your safety. It is the guarantee of your easy birth. Step back. Let Heaven handle it all. “You need do nothing.” As it states in A Course in Miracles. Get out of the way. Heaven’s got this! Rest in God and know the Tao is unfolding as is best for the healing of the world. Forgive the past. Forgive your losses. Forgive yourself and birth with ease this next year.
Those born in January have come to be pioneers. Every birth you have is a birth of your love. It is you saying “Yes!” to the next step in your life. Say “Yes!” to your partner and to your children. Say, “Yes!” to your friends and enemies alike. Say “Yes!” to life and “Yes!” To God and Heaven. Be at peace. Rest in God.
There is a way to turn the Wheel of Fortune up when it is going down. Think of whatever is unfolding is the Tao. It is in our best interest not to resist or fight it because that makes it worse. If you join what is going down, your mind is integrated with what is going down and the Wheel of Fortune immediately begins to go up instead of down. Accept what is unfolding. With an unsolvable problem, you are meant to see it from a higher perspective. Let it be. Join it. Ask the Holy Spirit to join you as you join whenever the Wheel of Fortune turns downward. What is going down need not be. We have been given the means to change in this world. We can change our mind and change the world. It is the easy way to learn our soul lessons. Joining is another form of love, a giving-forth that is forgiveness. It is extending ourselves by going beyond the body and joining mind to mind in such a way that can rewrite a dark pattern. You can save yourself so much suffering by learning this. Your learning doesn’t have to be perfect. Intention is everything and as you get through each lesson, share the positive energy with someone and it will increase for you. You can go through your past and turn every downturn into an upturn, learn the soul lesson and share it. This helps you, another and the world.
If this world is peaceful and positive in spite of the challenges it will be because we succeeded.
Independence comes from separation. This is painful so we dissociate. How independent are you? To give up independence and dissociation means you are entirely ready to have God protect you rather than your ego. Who do you think can do a better job of bringing you safety? Imagine you are like a little child, and you need do nothing.
You can undo where people are crucifying themselves by giving up your judgments and grievances on them and others you have similarly judged. You can forgive them instead. You can only judge because you have judged yourself first in this regard. To judge anyone is to add another nail to their crucifixion and your own. Learn to bless their call for help and you will bless what you have hidden from yourself. Learn to bless instead of judge and repeat the blessing in Charles Dickens’ Christmas Story: God bless us and everyone.
The worst experience of January, and of 2026, would be if you get triggered and lose your center. At that point you may be in such pain and confusion you don’t know what to do. If so, you may find that these aspects help:
1. Ask for Heaven’s help.
2. Ask to be returned to your center then an even deeper center for peace. Ask to be carried to a higher center. Then ask to be carried to a center that is both deeper and higher. Ask to be carried to your center ten years in the future. Then ask to be carried to a center where you are enlightened. Finally ask to be carried to your center in the Mind of God. Rest here.
3. Keep asking for truth and God’s justice. There may be hundreds of layers of illusion, so be persistent in your appeal. One pure request could trigger the miracle.
4. What is happening is a script you are writing. Find how old the script writer is and how many there are and welcome Divine Love to them till they grow up and melt into you in wholeness. Take advantage of what is occurring as an this opportunity for healing.
5. Ask to be put back on Heaven’s path and receive the benefit of Holy Family Bonding as separation is the root of all problems.
6. Fear comes from judgment and attack thoughts. Change your thoughts to ones of blessings and love as this heals fear.
7. All experience and perception come from our thoughts. Take responsibility for your thoughts. If you are not the general in your mind bringing order, your life becomes confused and disordered. Truth brings order, bonding and freedom. Keep asking the Holy Spirit for the way forward.
8. The ego attacks when you are just about to make a big breakthrough. Choose and commit to an easy birth.
9. Grievances block solutions, even miraculous solutions. Ask for a miracle and forgive the situation and everyone involved. Forgive yourself. Forgive Heaven. Forgive the past. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive.
10. Ask to see your situation from the eyes of the Holy Spirit, Christ or Quan Yin.
11. Let go of control, being right, or having things your way. Surrender. Let it be. Join the energy and the people involved so there is an upturn in the situation.
12. Unless you are guided to do something specific by the Holy Spirit you need do nothing. Rest in God. Get out of the way. Heaven has the miracles and light.
13. Trust yourself. Heaven does. Anything else is arrogance on your part. Put your faith and not your fear into the situation and everyone involved. The alternative is faithlessness and what is born of fear. Your faith and love are key ingredients in miracles. Heaven’s Love then is all that is left and it’s always being given.
14. Be willing. That is all that is needed on your part. Heaven does the rest.
15. Give the gift that comes to you to give to others and the situation. This opportunity to heal old and ancient contractions, withdrawal, stinginess, and blaming others for what you were secretly doing. Your gift can be turned over to Heaven and increased as much as ten thousand times (A Course in Miracles) for you to receive back for yourself to share with others. As you give forth, it is a forgiveness.
16. Recognize that if there is not love in the situation it is a call for help, a call for love. Only the crucified give pain. Forgiveness frees them from the cross.
17. The more you are upset, the bigger a soul lesson you are facing. Be a willing learner, even a happy learner as this accelerates the birth and unfolding process.
18. Your world is the mirror of your mind. Clean the mirror. The shadow figures you see represent how you used to be in old or ancient times. You may be judging or hating but it stems from self-hatred and while your hate goes outward it goes inward to the same extent. Every heartbreak contains hatred and self-hatred. Do not allow this toxicity to fester inside you.
19. There is no pain but comes from attachment. Release all losses and attachments. Do not use people who have died as your excuse to hold yourself back. This does not honor them. Their passing signals a new chapter in your life. It holds them back also and dishonors your relationship.
20. Commit to a holy relationship with everyone involved. It is alignment, attunement, and joining beyond the body. Otherwise, you will suffer the upset of a special relationship and using your body to gain power over your partner, which is a relationship you are using to support your ego and its self-concepts. In a holy relationship the body becomes a bridge of love and service. Give up using the body for pleasure or pain and you will find it to be a vehicle for transcendence. “Losing face” is tough on the ego but good for the soul in its journey to spirit. In a special relationship you act privileged and entitled, as if others were put on earth to take care of you. This is a level of immaturity that leads to tantrums and “shticks”. In a holy relationship if you see a problem, you immediately do what you can to make things better.
21. Under every problem there is a gift that if embraced melts the problem away. In any issues there is a gift that is a strong part of your purpose. Embrace that for peace and confidence.
22. There is a direct correlation between living your purpose and being happy. If you are not fulfilled, to that extent you are not living your purpose but living a life full of fear and hiding. You can’t do your purpose, but Heaven can do it for you. It is both your healing of your own past mistakes as well as your gifts of love and freedom to the world. In my fifty-five years in the healing profession almost all major problems, traumas and dramas are the delays and excuses not to live your purpose.
23. If you notice distance or difference with anyone, ask Mother Mary to bring her Oneness between you and them to bond you. If you notice a split in your own mind, invite Mother Mary and her gentleness into your mind to bring her wholeness to you.
At your level, a problem can only truly be solved from a higher perspective. The major lesson of 2026 and what we will all be faced with, is the birth to a higher, more spiritual perspective. The extent we do that the easier this birth year will be. Do your part and know your reward is love, peace and safety.
This is the year you were born for. It is what you have come for. It sets the tone for hundreds of years to come. Will you give yourself to Heaven and have yourself come back multiplied for what’s ahead? A year of great challenge and opportunity to save yourself time.
The world is not outside you. And if in its eruptions it seems merciless it is your mind to look to, to find the light of your innocence. Your holy relationship helps you to find your holiness that is within you just as you were created and to share it. Rest in Buddha’s lap. Be held in Quan Yin’s arms of mercy. Dwell in Christ’s sacred heart. Let Mother Mary renew you in her gentleness. And rest in God. This is the time you came for. Don’t turn away in fear and faithlessness. Trust in Heaven. The world is the reflection of judged and fragmented pieces of your own mind. Commit to truth. Let your peace radiate out to the world that would be healed of your past mistakes. You can look beyond the fragmentations of the world if you re-member your connection with Christ and older brothers and sisters Who have gone before you into Oneness. Then you need do nothing but rest in God.
This is the time you came for. It is what you signed up for, even fought for. Your spiritual resume was strong enough that you were given the permission to be here for the coming events. You didn’t come to change the world, necessarily, but you did come to lessen its most dire effects. This is not the time for spiritual procrastination. It is not the time to hide or complain; it is a time to contribute. Do not waste this time when you came to be a lighthouse by living your purpose and embracing your destiny of spiritual responsibility. Any time of crisis can greatly accelerate your spiritual growth. You are meant to align your personality with your soul. You are meant to be a beacon of faith in a time of deep need that sets the tone for the next chapter for yourself and the world.
This could be a time of maximum turbulence for the world, but you have come to bring peace through love, faith and unity. You chose to come into this as the time in history you could make the greatest difference. Yet as soon as we are born we forget who we are and what we have come to do. Our resistance could have begun when we felt unwanted. We didn’t realize it was us who didn’t want our parents, our purpose or the world. This is a time of spiritual acceleration. If you are caught in the appearance of what is going on in the world it will distract you from how crucial it is to remember who you are and what you are made of. If you remember you and everyone are spirit, God’s children, and innocent, you will help everyone remember their true identity and safety. Don’t look for comfort and denial while your brothers drown in darkness and despair. It is not about success now or self-aggrandizement. It is doing your small part that joined with others that has a profound effect on both yourself and the world. Are you doing what you came to do? Are you keeping your sacred promise to help? Will you remember who you are? Will you have faith when things look dark? Will you be generous in times of scarcity? Will you bring peace to others’ in their panic? Will you bring joy where there has been sorrow? Will you have courage when everyone is afraid? This is all doable if you remember Who walks with you and Who is part of you in Oneness. As you remember your essence and what you came for, as you rest in the peace that is part of your being, part of all Being, your peace and wholeness pours out to the world. Your little part could save the world from total collapse. Do your part. Heal yourself. Ask for grace. You are entitled to miracles. Hold the frequency of peace that brings a resonance with another such that it becomes of peace. What is stripped away now allows more of your iridescent essence to show. Only you can do what you promised. If you don’t do it, it doesn’t get done. Do it now. Welcome your spirit. Let your soul, not your ego, be in charge and let your spirit guide you home. Maintain your integrity as it is your wholeness and ability to receive. Only what is false can be stripped away. Your essence remains.
You have chosen to come into this turbulent time. Let it forge your soul into a higher awareness and into greater truth of what’s important.
This is a time where you can align to Heaven and surrender to truth so you ride the coming, overwhelming, wave with grace. Your soul is inviting you. Heaven is helping you. Welcome the truth. Wake up from your sleep. Share your faith and you share your peace. Be one with the spirit of helpfulness and healing beginning with yourself. As you love yourself and help others, your fulfillment will grow in spite of any challenge. Ancient gifts will come to you as you need them, triggered by challenges you may face. Heaven believes in you. It is time to believe in yourself. Share your gifts. Share your peace. Share your love.
The holy relationship frees you and your partner so that through your holy relationship comes the grace, inspiration and miracles that saves others. A holy relationship is finding complete innocence in your partner and thus finding it in yourself. It is the promise with the help of the Holy Spirit to find total innocence in your partner and thus find it in yourself. This opens the gateway to the Garden, the home that is Heaven on earth. If you find the innocence in another, you find it in yourself. If you find it in yourself, you naturally find it in them. You have put onto your partner what you dislike and have buried in yourself. A holy relationship is the commitment in which the Holy Spirit frees your partner of what you have hidden in yourself. Hiding under that self-hatred is the gifts and the willingness to forgive and give forth your gifts to your partner and the world.
In the holy relationship you naturally give thanks for all the happiness your brother holds out to you. You recognize your partner as the eternal gift of God to you. You see the holiness that shines in both you and them to bless each other. You naturally forgive past grievances that locks them into anything other than a shining Child of God. The purpose of a holy relationship is that you may enter the Kingdom of Heaven together by seeing another’s total innocence while recognizing your own. In a holy relationship you give all of your gifts to free another withholding none to free them of guilt and so you may be freed of your hidden guilt and fear. You have made your partner separate and distant by what you have judged, buried and projected on them. These judgments stop the miracles that a holy relationship brings. Join them. Welcome them. You and your partner are the one Child of God united in Christ with all your brothers and sisters.
Send your love into the future. Let all grievances toward others go as they are your gateway home. Let go of the laws of the world. The path of spirit relinquishes these laws guaranteed to have you restricted, fail and suffer their consequences. The others in your life, past and present, are entrances to love or to suffering. Let them be what saves you as you save them. Let it be a time of the reawakening of Heaven’s laws and the relinquishment of the world’s laws. In Heaven there is only limitless joining in the beauty and innocence of each other. Let that this be part of this month for the year. In times of turbulence and trial you can leap forward more than any other time. Your grievances toward others is your path of pain. Your blessings and helpfulness is your path of delight. Reviewing your life under the Holy Spirit’s vision sees no pain or illusion. His gaze is the perspective of eternity that allows for no illusions. As you free that past you free yourself and others into a more blessed realm. Your attitude in January sets the course for the whole year. Point the prow of your ship, especially your relationship, into the wave so as not to founder. Bless the world with your true choice and your joy.
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year!
Chuck Spezzano
Nightlight Newsletter
January 2026
Kahuku, Hawaii