June
June is a month of potential. And in a month that has so many possibilities we are called to return to basics to make the most of such potential and realize its possibilities. Out of fear we have a way of making exceptions in our life regarding what heals and advances us. This is in spite of knowing what works for healing, transformation, and progress.
The more a feeling of deadness occurs in our life, it shows that we have a deadly conflict within. The feelings of deadness are just the defenses that hides it. The conflict is the desire to die mostly out of disappointment in life, relationships, and yourself, in the hopes of ending your suffering.
The other aspect of the conflict that actually adds to it is the fear of life. The fear of death is a thin defense over our attraction to death, our fear of life, and our fear of failing at our purpose. The more you have a sense of failure in your life, the more you want to escape its pain by attacking yourself and running from life.
There are people we haven’t forgiven, in spite of knowing that who or what we don’t forgive holds us back. There are people that we still have grievances with, and carry dark emotions toward. If you realize there is a grievance at the heart of every problem, then you know that your grievances work against you as well as against others
Who haven’t you forgiven? This is a person you came to save, not judge. We have forgotten the fundamental principle of peace, which is that if someone didn’t act out of love toward you they were calling for help. If what happened was a major painful event in your life, it was a soul lesson you came in to learn. The extent of the pain is the extent it hasn’t been learned as yet. Grace would help us learn it so we can be released. You can ask to be returned to Heaven’s path that contains Holy Family bonding.
What happens in this world is a dream, as the Buddha said. He also noted that it was our mind that made the dream of this world. We are called to learn lessons here in this world in the seminar called life. We do this in order to raise our consciousness in each life on the way to Oneness. Yet it is still a dream. At any time, we can choose to be complete and wake up from it. We can choose to live a life that is always sharing, extending and answering the call for love as a way of advancing quickly.
There are no exceptions to the law of love. This means we are called to love people who are diametrically opposed to what we now believe. We are even called to love those who attack us or seem to be acting against our interests. They are in service because they show us what we used to believe, and how we used to act before that we haven’t accepted, forgiven and come to peace with. Without our judgments, blame and grievances, which are projections of our own guilt, we would only see calls for help and reasons to be compassionate. If others are not showing us love, we aren’t showing it to them. And if they didn’t show us this behavior, we wouldn’t be able to find these hidden caches or shadow figures within us that contain guilt, and the self-attack of guilt that holds us back.
The world is our mirror. We project everything we don’t like about ourselves on others. As A Course in Miracles states, we have come to forgive the world. This heals our hidden selves. The world shows our judgments and the projections of our fragmented mind. Only as we forgive and include, are we forgiven and included.
To have everyone win, we have to let go of our way. We are then called to give up our resistance, and to stop fighting another’s way, in order to choose Heaven’s Way. It is the only way for both to succeed. It is the only way for peace that encompasses the understanding that the other’s position is necessary to integrate for our wholeness. If your life is difficult and fearful, it shows you are trying to do it all yourself, and probably are attempting to carry it all on your shoulders. You have forgotten Heaven and Its grace, seeking to replace Heaven with your ego.
If the world is a dream and your mirror, there is really no one else out there. Everyone is just reflecting you and your mind, which is why all forgiveness is really self-forgiveness. At a soul or unconscious level we are just interacting with ourselves, the selves we haven’t fully forgiven and integrated into wholeness and peace. Everyone we are interacting with shows whether we are at peace or whether we are in conflict with ourselves. Our outer conflicts show inner conflicts.
At an even deeper level of our soul mind, every person represents our relationship with God. What we think someone did to us or didn’t do for us, we secretly think God did to us or didn’t do for us. Yet God could not have done what we have blamed Him for, because God can’t go against Himself. He gives all to all, along with giving us total freedom. This is the nature of God’s Oneness and His generous Love. Now if God wasn’t doing what we accused Him of, it looks like we are the only ones left who could have done it; and that what we were blaming God for, we had been doing to God and to others all along. For instance, it is impossible that God could have abandoned or rejected us, as God is Love and Oneness. It is a subconscious principle that we are the ones doing to others what we blamed them for doing to us.
Our emotions come from us. No one makes us feel anything, because our emotions are inside us. No one besides ourselves makes us feel guilt or hurt or fear. Our emotions are a choice, however instantaneous, because they are how we choose to respond or react to what is happening. The pain of emotions come from our interpretation, or rather our misinterpretation of an event. If we choose to react, it is from old emotions and beliefs already inside us; and we are using these emotions and misinterpretations in the present for a certain payoff, typically to stay independent and hide from our purpose. Learning these principles of emotional empowerment and maturity makes our life, and the lives of those around us much easier. Not learning them leads to immaturity, tantrums and using situations to get our way, while secretly disincluding ourselves from our life.
Maturity and generosity are the result of continually choosing to give love in spite of any problems you are having with another. Our generosity is a waterwheel of prayer that continues serving and responding with love. Thus, if there is scarcity in some area it shows a stinginess on our part. It is a place where we are expecting others to give what they don’t have. Since deprivation is never Heaven’s Will, we were given the gift that once given frees everyone. If we give up our expectations and sense of privilege, we could recognize that we have the gift within us that we are seeking from others.
There is also the deeper principle of the subconscious level, of recognizing whatever happened to us in our life was our plan. In our higher mind it was to learn the lesson and raise our consciousness. With our ego it was to compound the pain and build itself at the cost of happiness and truth.
What happened in our lives was a script we wrote to get some ego payoff, usually to run from our purpose and to have an excuse to do things our way. Everything that we did or didn’t do, everything that happened in our life, everything that was done to us, is our responsibility and a soul lesson. We used others and events to attack ourselves and to give us an excuse to stop learning and moving forward. We used it as our excuse to refuse our purpose. Now each of these dark events gives us the opportunity to wake up from blaming others and having grievances, because like judgment, we were only using blame and grievances to hide our own guilt within. These are big lessons to learn, especially if we are afraid of life and want to have an excuse not to go forward; but learning is what frees us. Remember, you don’t have to make things happen in your life to have success. You simply clear and heal your mind, give your best and Heaven if invited does the rest. Get out of the way, let go of grievances, and be at peace so you can be in a state of rest and readiness.
Heaven’s got this. Stop pushing yourself. Stop worrying and trying to push the river. Do everything in partnership, especially in partnership with Heaven. It will do all of the heavy lifting and open the door to grace-filled learning.
Everything is karma, so if you are a happy learner, or even a willing learner, then your life will be smooth and joy-filled. If you have a life of gratitude, you will always be in the flow. If you recognize that everything that happens is the Tao at work for the best, you will also recognize that now is the best time to heal and learn this lesson. As a result, your resistance falls away and it is your resistance that is causing you pain and difficulty. You may not like what is going on and unfolding as you heal, but if you accept it you move on. What is happening then falls more and more into the understanding that brings peace.
You are innocent. You were created that way. No one and nothing can change God’s Will, and your innocence is God’s Will. Innocence brings fruition. The rest was the illusion the ego uses to build itself. It separates us from ourselves through pain, guilt and emotions, and it separates us from others. As we heal there is more unity both inside and out. If you remember these transformative principles they will help you unlock yourself from the prison you have made turning potential into present fruition.
June is meant to be a month known for growth and fruitfulness. There is nothing we need do to help life or fruit grow to maturity. June is full of possibilities and it is realized by how much love we extend and how much of our gifts we share. This doesn’t make it happen so much as it helps us to realize that what was possible has become realized, and this brings joy and abundance. Being half-hearted in anything is being half-assed, and this has mixed results.
This is a month that can shine with love. It is love that can bring renewal and joy. It is love that can bring peace and spiral us up toward Heaven. It is giving with your whole heart that heals sacrifice, because it is a choice for love instead. This means we give ourselves fully in whatever we do, because if we stay withdrawn it locks us in sacrifice, a prison of our own making.
If you really want to help others, then keep inviting God’s Love and Light into you. This will clean out the darkness within, allowing you more peace and understanding. It is this light in which you will become ever more pure, and you will be able to receive and enjoy more of what you receive. You can become a lighthouse in these times of darkness and great opportunity. You will show the way to freedom as your light and peace resonate with others around you, kindling their light and bringing them peace. From one single flower a garden can grow.
June is a month of possibilities. Allow them to be realized, because God’s plan contains no pain, only creation and fruition. Let us embrace the light instead of our ego and its attack. God extends His Love and the miracles that are part of His path. Let yourself be willing and happy, as you will become part of it too.
Chuck Spezzano
Nightlight Newsletter
June 2025
Turtle Bay, Oahu