March 2025
March is a month meant to bring greater success to your life. It is a month for reaching out and extending yourself. It is a month in which you can recognize your invulnerability because you realize your attack on yourself has had no effect. As a result you begin to recognize that others’ attack on you which is your hidden self-attack also has had no effect and does not weaken you. You are light and spirit and attack has no effect on you. We attack others when we feel weak but if we recognize that attack has no affect, we give up trying to attack another to gain advantage or our equality back.
Success comes from giving your heart and mind totally to success. We see it as already ours. We claim it by the very fact that we deserve it. We are not distracted by a split mind that results in attack, or self-attack, that locks us into a spiral of guilt and fear. Giving yourself is love and giving yourself totally is the love that brings success in whatever endeavor you are applying yourself. Only giving yourself totally approaches the Holy Spirit’s Love which is undivided. Success comes from learning to give yourself and engage yourself fully in whatever you are doing. A split mind, on the other hand, puts you in conflict, and fear, as it lessens and diverts your energy. Commitment is the choice to give yourself fully to the point where conflicts are integrated by the giving of trust and truth. This gives you a carefree energy that is untroubled by self-attack and other forms of doubt as all of your energy is focused on success and the goal.
What is available this month is the possibility of opening the door to being carefree. You may find blandishments in your life that try to tempt you away from feeling uplifted and being carefree, but you can put your future in the Hands of God (A Course in Miracles) for perfect peace. When you know that God’s got your back and every aspect of your life, then you can be carefree. Being carefree means you know you are light and divine spirit and are invulnerable. You being carefree comes from knowing your innocence and that of everyone else’s also. Guilt is simply a mistake that can be corrected. You can also correct the judgment on others that come as a result of guilt. If you know this you could never blame yourself for what was a mistake or simply a misunderstanding. Your innocence frees everyone while your guilt freezes everyone into a past that never was. Being carefree is truth. It is being totally at peace. It provides enough love to give both freedom and partnership. Commitment is a choice to give yourself fully. It wins back parts of your mind that you fragmented and lost when you got off Heaven’s track of peace and love as a result of a trauma or misunderstanding locking you into some identity.
The Holy Spirit’s Love is undivided and you can use that Love because it is a part of your own mind. The traumas and events that knocked you off both your and Heaven’s track can be healed to bring you back to wholeness by simply asking that you be returned to it. This adds to your level of focus and it is this combination of grace and giving that is the essence of success. It is your success that comes from you focusing in an area that you value. The more you give yourself, the more you succeed. As a result success becomes your teacher. We were all created successful by God, We were all created as creators. We were created in God’s image Who is total Success because He is total in His giving which then opens us to receiving.
Where you are not succeeding, you are split-minded. You are not giving fully or not reading the signs within and without that show the way. In life there are winners and learners. If you are not succeeding, learn from the situation and want success with all your heart so that you may give yourself fully. Concentrate on what you want. If you don’t know what you want, keep asking for the truth and going forward. Ask yourself where you got off Heaven’s track. Then ask that the Holy Spirit to restore you back to Heaven’s Way of life rather then the split mind with the ups and downs of your ego. Whatever that incident was that got you off the track, it gave you a split mind and you can simply ask to be returned to Heaven’s track and that your mind be made whole. This single exercise again aligns your will and Heaven’s Will together and it regains a part of yourself that was lost to you. This makes success natural and easy. As a result you stop attacking yourself by realizing that attack has no effect and as a result you stop attacking others. You can learn to bless instead of the attack that comes of judgment. You can answer the call for help instead of seeing another as being below you. You can commit to equality instead of competition. This increases mutuality, cooperation and sharing, which is the biggest principle of abundance. Your commitment to more than your own personal success is what makes you a leader.
There are no shortcuts in real success. If you try to get ahead by cheating, you doubt yourself from that point on as being truly successful. Your integrity allows you to receive and enjoy. You can reclaim your integrity by returning to where you thought you could get ahead by cheating in some way. Your ego always suggests that you indulge yourself. Then when you indulge, your ego begins to attack you for not living up to the image you want to have of yourself. You have the choice of either clearing the past and regaining your wholeness of heart and mind or you remain in hiding, rationalizing and compensating as a way to deny past lapses and moral failures. When you are half-hearted or split-minded, it is easy to become a victim. The split off part is hidden so it can secretly bring in self-destructive aspects of attacking yourself and others. Or sometimes you let yourself be used so you can hold yourself back or give yourself an excuse to use others.
Your innocence is the key to a success that includes yourself. Your demand to have things your way cuts you off from the best way which also includes both your partner’s and Heaven’s way. Having your way is really having it your ego’s way and in your ego’s way you don’t actually include yourself. In circumstances where you used people to get something and to have your way, you lost your integrity, wholeness and your ability to receive is blunted. You can go back to that time where you lost integrity and got off Heaven’s Track. You can ask to be returned to your and Heaven’s path so you can give yourself fully and invite in the Holy Spirit’s Love at the same time. A victim situation is one of taking, excuses and revenge. It is a fear of going forward and this is the opposite of success. Our deeper mind shows we are accountable for everything that happened in our lives and that we have the responsibility to make it better. You can restore yourself and others through the miracle of love and thus regain your innocence and wholeness. March also seems to be a month of quick or even instant karma. You can use this as feedback for when you have gotten off the track.
March contains strong warrior influence where you can be the spear of success that once thrown brings, your life toward greater purpose, partnership with a stronger connection to everyone and yourself. You can regain your strength this month. You can regain your integrity and wholeness. Let Heaven cast the spear of your life forward for it is Heaven that wants success for you even more than you want it for yourself. Be the spear in Heaven’s Hands. Most people find they are pushing themselves and not resting at all but you can rest in Heaven’s Hands until it is your time to be thrown. Then it is your delight to fulfill your function. As you fully fulfill your function as a spear of success you can then graduate and become a chalice to receive the Mastery Stage. For those who have gotten lost, March provides one of the best chances to get yourself back on track and find yourself. Welcome the fullness of success that comes of giving yourself totally this month. Are you willing to leave it all on the field before you go in order to help the world by going beyond it?
Chuck Spezzano
Nightlight Newsletter
March 2025
Turtle Bay, Oahu