May 2025
May is meant to be a month of major release. Welcome this as it brings peace and power equally. May is a pivotal month in that it is meant to free us from unconscious patterns where we gave up the goal of Heaven in exchange for the pursuit of separation, personal needs and hell in this world of separation and false promises. May is also meant to be a time of friendship and extending the welcome that brings both flow and unfolding.
This month may start showing you where you have scarcity and avoidance in your life, but it equally transforms when you can embrace the form of healing that is called for, such as peace, appreciation or forgiveness. This gives you the awareness that all problems are lessons Heaven would have you learn, and that under every challenge there is a gift you have within and another gift that Heaven wants to give you. When these gifts are shared the problems and issues dissolve into the illusions they are; then fritter away in the winds of May. Heaven wants every good thing for you, so look for the silver lining in every dark cloud that shows up. The Holy Spirit can undo what’s occurring if you ask for a way in which everyone can win. Your ego has a way where it looks like you will come out succeeding over everyone, but it is a way of snatching defeat out of the jaws of success.
May continues to be a deepening of the mind in such a way that what is not whole and at peace comes to the surface for healing. It is an intense time for many people. Old guilts long since buried emerge to the surface. Yet, the Supreme Court of Heaven has ruled you innocent. Nothing more need be said.
You are called for healing. This is what the world is about. Learn to forgive everyone because they are the parts of your mind that you have judged in yourself, buried and pushed into the world outside. In the same way, situations or problems outside are what was inside you before you judged, fragmented and projected these pieces on things and people, as you turn situations dark, and people into dark friends in your mind. Forgive until there is peace. The world is your movie, made up of your self-concepts, and replayed again and again until there is acceptance, forgiveness and peace. This is another, better way that leads to happiness and wholeness.
You can go through every emotion and every darkness in a simple exercise by using your intuition. In every painful situation or emotion you simply ask, “What is beneath this? What is driving this?” You will typically go through many deeper, darker places but as you go deeper what was on top begins to dissipate. You can save yourself a lot of time in this exercise.
Eventually you will reach lighter feelings and then more and more feelings of gladness, love and joy. Alternately, if this seems too difficult you can start with any situation; such as cold symptoms, a problem, or an emotion such as anger, loss or hurt. You can start with that experience. Feel it. Embrace it. Then go to the center of that picture, emotion or sensation. Again as you keep doing this, you will typically go into deeper, darker places before it begins to lighten up. In this way you can go all the way to the light of Heaven Itself. Feel each feeling vividly, embrace it and then move on.
These exercises unfold whatever situation or emotion you are in until there is peace. You can even reach the peace that surpasses understanding. You can proceed until there is only the ultimate Reality of God. The rest is illusion that is dispersed as the situation unfolds.
We accumulated pain over time as we began to accept separation and the guilt and self-attack that goes with it. In this way we built a personal mind and self-concepts that separate us from others and from God. But being in God is still our ultimate destiny, no matter how many illusions we have piled over our true identity of being one with God. Our personal mind made an illusory world in which we seek to find answers and to have our needs met. Yet our ultimate reality is the joy that comes with being in God. You can practice this by Remembrance of God, and by remembering that this Oneness was how you were created. Nothing can change it. You are a Child of God. Not only do personal illusions and pain fall away in this Remembrance, but collective pain is also dispelled, bit by bit, in the Love that is God’s, and therefore yours as His Child. In any painful situation you can ask to be carried back to God’s Path, with its Holy Family bonding, to heal the separation at the root of the problem.
Every situation is an opportunity for healing. Every person acting out in a negative fashion is calling for help. As you remember they are God’s Child also and that as you help another you help yourself. Those acting out are showing you parts of yourself that you judged and buried, but couldn’t find any other way to find these fragments for healing. From God’s Path it is easy for you to share the soul gift you brought in for just this experience. Each situation that is healed helps unify your mind as it helps unify the world.
In this time where we seem to be heading into a darker world where collective problems are surfacing faster, it is also a time of great opportunity for restoring wholeness, and the power that empowers. Power that disempowers is not really power at all, but control based on fear. In a world of fear, fearful things emerge, and people either choose to give their power over to false leaders, or they give it over to the Holy Spirit part of their mind. As you keep calling on the Holy Spirit to make all of your decisions, your mind begins to be predominately happy, and you begin working for Heaven’s sake. In spite of the fact that the ego, your personal mind is so selfish it actually contains no self-inclusion. The personal mind is built on the three major ego roles of victim, sacrifice and dissociated independence. These roles block your purpose, intimacy and the success that is inclusive.
May is a month where we can make the choice either for ourselves alone or for everyone, including ourselves. In May long standing misunderstandings that led to separation, and you following your ego rather than God’s “Way of Life” can now be healed. We can get back to the purity of our childhood where we loved everyone. In separating, we refused our soul lessons because we wanted to do things our way. We blamed and made “bad guys” out of those situations where others were feeling unfortunate and acting unfortunately. This was an excuse for us to separate, and we suffered pain as a result. Separation sets up patterns of guilt, heartbreak and revenge, and it took us off Heaven’s path; the path of love, peace and miracles that is God’s Way of life.
We used these events to be independent, and they set up needs. As a result, it is difficult to get our needs met because we want independence at the same time. If you heal yourself and refuse to attack yourself and others, you can help everyone as you extend yourselves. If you want to help God, help His children.
Everyone is a Child of God. This month ask for God’s peace and strength to sustain you. Ask to be put back on God’s path. Ask for the Tao to come into your mind a hundred times a day to bring clarity, and the grace and freedom of the truth. You are God’s Child and deserve every good thing. This is true entitlement and not the untrue privileged expectations that lead to conflict. If you remember that everyone is God’s Child, you will be in a blessed way. You will think of them as you want to be thought of, and treat them as you would want to be treated yourself. This is your month. You can help everyone, as all of our minds are connected. You can make your life a Heaven or you can make it a hell. Let’s all go for Heaven, and together make it a better world.
Chuck Spezzano
Nightlight Newsletter
May 2025
Turtle Bay, Oahu