October 2025
October 2025 gives you a prelude to 2026. October begins the new year’s energy. It is a birth month, bringing to light all that you have been working for. That includes secret dreams, so things may show up that you didn’t know you wanted. Examine what comes to you this month, and know your secret heart. Some of your secret dreams should be let go of, because they are an obstacle to your growth, a mere distraction. Other dreams are meant to be fostered and cherished, since they would build your life.
There will also be some gifts from the Garden of Earthly Delights. Enjoy these but don’t linger there. Pleasures are part of life, but they are meant to be a refreshment; and not held onto as an attachment, a distraction or an obstacle.
If you are not loved in your life, it is because you have separated and detached yourself from others in order to be independent. This is a lonely, domineering position. Happiness, on the other hand, comes from sharing, which is the essence of abundance. October is meant to be a month of surprises, and most of them as the happy beginnings of new chapters.
Do not resist what is negative in your life this month. Only the ego can be offended. Only the ego wants conflict. Go with the flow. Let anything that is brought about in negativity be corrected. Bring the light of the Divine between you and anything untoward this month, so that the two melt together in peace and wholeness, and so nothing results in a rude awakening. Trust transforms what is untrue. Have faith in yourself, your partner, and anyone in your life who needs it.
You can receive upliftment simply by asking for it this month. Learning this can be helpful for the rest of your life. Take a minute to quiet your mind with all the sincerity of your heart, and ask for what you want. Afterwards, take another minute to receive. Know that if you ask for love and don’t receive it, it is because you are not giving it, and have closed the door to it. Choose someone and pour your love into them. You will immediately begin to feel love where you had not felt it before. This can show you how powerfully your generosity, and the act of giving, can change your life.
Open any doors in your mind that are closed. We close doors when we feel wounded and insulted in the areas of love, relationships, sex and romance. We close doors in our heart and in our mind. We close doors on men and women. We even close the doors on Heaven, as it tries to help us. Your scarcity and difficulties demonstrate that you have closed doors. This is just attempting to prove something.
If what you are proving is something negative, forgiveness is called for- beginning with yourself, the one who wrote the script. If you are proving something positive, proof is not necessary for what God created. He gave you whatever you could possibly want for yourself at creation. Anything else is just a waste of time. You are what you are trying to prove. Relax. Bless. Receive. You are God’s Child. This is the end of the old scarcity story, and the beginning of a whole new level of abundance.
Trust heals fear, and opens the door. It brings the beauty of a new day. Let this be the new day that you meet with confidence. Heaven has a new day for you, no matter how deeply you have mired yourself. Want your new beginning with all your heart. Anything that doesn’t come easily to you shows where you have a split mind. Ask the Tao to bring Its light into your split mind (however deep it goes), to reveal how you both want it and don’t want it. Let the Tao bring the light that melts these fragments of your mind, which transforms conflict and fear into wholeness.
Appreciate the people around you, and all that they give to you. They have given you love, and shown you all of your unhealed parts. Feel gratitude for your parents, who have done so much for you. They raised you up, but in your desire to be independent you didn’t see that they were a necessary part of your soul lessons. You made them wrong, and instead of feeling gratitude for them, you created problems and separations, You did not realize what a gift and a blessing they were for you. You didn’t realize they represented many past lives that you can now forgive and integrate.
All forgiveness is self-forgiveness. What you saw in the other person that you didn’t like, you used as your excuse to separate. Yet your judgments about them are always about what you have not forgiven yourself for. What you hold against another only comes from what you are doing. It comes from what you are feeling guilty about.
Guilt keeps what was untrue alive, which the ego uses to keep you from fully learning a lesson. The ego uses guilt in order to build a monument to a mistake, to keep you from your purpose and destiny. The best gift you could possibly give anyone is innocence; but you must first find it in yourself or it’s just a word, and a belief that gives you the role of playing good.
Heaven loves you. A mistake is just a soul lesson. You are innocent. Nothing else is needed. The more you receive innocence, the more you will share it to help everyone, and to help free the world. Without your innocence, what hope is there for the world, the mirror of your mind?
Chuck Spezzano
Nightlight Newsletter
October, 2025
Kahuku, Hawaii