September 2026
September is a crucial month in terms of healing and upgrading your life.
September brings endings and new beginnings. As we let go of attachments and idols, love takes their place and makes success a continuous, solid experience in our lives rather than a sketchy intermittent one. There are no neutral thoughts. We either extend or project. We love or we attack. (A Course in Miracles). We either attack through projecting our past on the world or we extend ourselves in love. Letting go brings a new chapter of love because we let go of idols, which are called the anti-Christ by A Course in Miracles. When idols are let go of, love takes their place because idols are a substitute for bonding. When your heart opens, new beginnings occur.
There are crosscurrents in September. You can be riding the wave one way in September and then the current quickly shifts to another destination. This is a reflection of our split mind. We could ask for Heaven’s Love to melt these opposite aspects of our mind into wholeness. There can be love one minute and pain the next as new levels to heal emerge. Learn from the pain, it always shows the place you have an idol that could be let go. An idol is a special thing or person you have put in place of God. It is important to be aware when you are caught in opposite, conflicting emotions because without awareness you will wear yourself out fighting two opposite currents. You can become caught in your own attack thoughts making you frightened. If this occurs you can simply ask Mother Mary or Quan Yin to bring Their Oneness and enjoy the healing when they bring Their compassion and bonding for you. This affects your relationship with you, your relationship with Her and your relationship with others. Most everything is solved with a new level of bonding, and you can simply enjoy the peace, love and abundance that comes with bonding which is the true and natural connection established at creation. Without bonding, there is separation and lack and we try to fill it with idols and false goals. With bonding there is ease, truth and receiving. The separative gap between you and others is the root of all the ills of the world.
The words to follow are not just pleasant words. They are the way out of the coming storm by turning typhoons into gentle rains and what would have been earthquakes into a gentle passing of the day into night rather than the catastrophic shock of opposing forces. September is a month in which you are called to surrender, to join even what seems to be quite negative. Surrender is not defeat or giving up. Firstly, it is valuing what you bring in your joining. What you surrender to is a lost, judged, fragmented and projected part of you that now could bring a new wholeness. Surrender is a welcoming. It is a paradoxical principle. It comes from the feminine that looks beyond appearances to the highest level of compassion and sees the light of Heaven. It keeps forgiveness, joining, and kindness as the three fundamental principles that empower compassion. In a world where forgiveness, compassion and joining are recognized as your function, you return to the Garden, and it is filled with beauty and unity because you are extending love rather than projecting your past and its attack thoughts on the world. Your troubles come from wanting something outside yourself and from thinking you know the way to find happiness. You think if only another person or situation changes, then you will be happy. But you won’t be happy until you change, no matter what another does. If you weren’t crying about loses, heartbreaks from your past, mistaken goals where you believed that your happiness was outside you, you would instead recognize yourself in the Mind of God. Attachments lead to disappointment. They are an attempt to get attention and specialness that comes from suffering, Being a victim comes from idols and shattered dreams especially the loss of a cherished self-concept. The need for attachments and idols comes from separating to be special and then feeling need, loneliness and lack as a result and attempting to get something outside yourself. You look for something outside you to fill what you perceive as the gap between you and others and as a result seeing something missing inside you. When your attachment is strong to something in an attempt to fill the gap, it becomes a defense that uses coercion and control to get things your way. This leads to conflict rather than joining others and welcoming Heaven’s help to change toward happy dreams as a way of life.
To energetically join another or a dark situation atones for past mistakes of separation and ameliorates their negative effects. This is what joining does to perception. Otherwise we see our past projected as a movie that seems to happen to us. To surrender is to release any judgments between you and another person or event and thus to see them as they are instead of projecting your past experiences on them.
You may have heard me repeat the Hawaiian surfer’s saying: “The waves never cease, so you might as well learn to surf.” Problems and issues are always coming up to ride. It is crucial especially at this time to learn that you are the cause of everything that happens in your life. If you deny or forget this, you will act like a victim and try to change someone or something other than yourself. To know it is your own mind that dreamed the dream can give you your power back; if you recognize you are the author of the dream and the writer of your life story then you can transform it. As a result, your mind can come together to witness and to realize that no one is a bad guy but someone acting in distress. They need love not your projection on them to try to assuage your guilt for past mistakes. Your attack thoughts and judgments are making up your dark experiences and your reality. Compassion is called for instead.
Your innocence was established by God at creation, and it is irreversible. Only your ego could, in its arrogance, attempt to tell you otherwise. We have all made mistakes in this dream world, but it is a dream and we have come to learn and unlearn, to heal and grow in this workshop of a world. The past and its darkness are gone unless you use it to hold onto something to prove and justify how you think and feel. Everyone, including you, were and are made innocent by God’s extending His Love at your creation. We use guilt to hide our fear to keep us from going forward. We then project our guilt on another and are angry at them and try to get them to change rather than to change ourselves. We judge others where we feel guilty and are not changing.
September is for either completing or letting go of loose ends and unfinished business as, otherwise, they drain our energy and hold us back. What you think anyone, such as parents, past partners, business associates did to you is what you actually did to them. How you see them is how you see yourself. We may have hidden shadows buried and denied this under a compensation that acts in the opposite way or by being a victim. In these situations, soul promises were made but not kept to help those we projected on and were seemingly wounded by. Gifts were not received or given when they could have been. Mistakes and greed piled up leading to corruption of our soul function. Our function is something only we can accomplish with Heaven’s help. There is healing through forgiveness, compassion and joining. On a spiritual path, any demands on another to change leads to power struggle and is out of integrity because we want another to change where we are refusing to change. Any form of coercion, anger and control of wanting another to do it our way, the right way as we see it, is to serve our ego and it will backfire. Instead, you can invite, allow, integrate, welcome and feel grateful, and the Tao will then unfold the situation easily.
A chronic problem, especially an illness or injury, at a deep and hidden level is asking for sympathy, yet here we have judged ourselves and won’t allow ourselves to receive love or to love ourselves because we have built a self-concept, a personal myth that does not honor or welcome what you are being given that you really want.
Your body’s problems are meant to impugn another’s guilt while trying to hide your own by your accusation. All of these dynamics show a place where you are afraid of the next step in your life. Some of this fear and lack of stepping forward has now become a chronic issue in our lives and is reflected by us or people around us having dark lessons. Our chronic problems can be healed at the time when the problem began by giving 100% to another then in their call for help instead of blaming them. Traumas and separation lead us to becoming a victim and lock in the emotions of fear, guilt and pain. If instead we gave our love and Heaven’s Love together it would create a miracle that would free us and others from the root of a self-defeating problem.
The world is a dream, and we are the author of the dream in the life we experience. If we don’t learn this basic lesson, we will keep trying to change others and suffer when they don’t change. In our traumas we bet on ourselves to learn the lesson not have any suffering as a result. We could thus have any dark event become a blessing and a leaping forward instead of a heartbreak. When we judged and separated, we suffered. We can choose to heal this now. Before we came to this world, we sometimes forgot how big the challenge of learning such a lesson in this world of pain, loneliness, and idols would be. When we came to this world we forgot we were the dreamer of the dream. When we didn’t succeed in learning the lesson we began a chronic pattern under the guise of being independent and special because of the self-concept the dark event was supporting.
Every heartbreak we experienced was actually a tantrum in that someone didn’t act the way they were supposed to meet our needs according to the script we assigned them from our privileged, entitled position. It was a soul lesson that we didn’t learn. The others seemed to ignore the script we gave them on one hand, but on the other hand they completely lived up to the hidden script we secretly gave them. In this hidden script, they acted exactly the way we wanted them to. We did this to get hidden payoffs such as the excuse not to live our purpose as we blamed another. In this way we didn’t have to face the fear of taking the next step, but instead we built a certain self-concept such as being the hero of our dream to be special. We used what happened as an excuse to allow us to do things our way no matter what the cost.
Things are happening for the best to bring about what needs healing and to bring us the awareness of what needs to heal. This is as true in catastrophic situations as well as personal issues. Be determined to see what is truly happening. What happened in our lives showed us what needed healing and every person was acting out an old or ancient self-concept for us. That is why one of the forms of Hawaiian method Ho’o pono pono of healing is to repeat with strong intention toward anything that upsets you:
“I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank You. I love you.”
It takes responsibility for our perception recognizing it’s a projection. When we think we didn’t want something to happen, the Tao chose it to happen for our healing, while we had other ego-errant goals in mind. It was the ego that dreamed dark events and authored the dream in exactly that way in order to build itself and not learn the lesson. How it manifested for us in our lives showed our intention in using it, either for healing or suffering and being right. This shows the split, dualistic conflicted nature of the ego. It wants to make a name for itself even though we suffer to do it. It is even willing to become a victim in order to support a self-concept. We make a self-concept either positively by our achievement in the dream world or negatively by our victimization and defeat. Yet everything happens for the best in terms of what needs to be healed. Our response shows whether we chose to follow the ego’s way or for healing and greater wholeness on the way to Oneness.
You may wonder how to heal and to surrender and thus succeed in regard to personal or major disasters. Here is a good way: Imagine the problem seems like one of those 100-foot Hawaiian waves, and you haven’t even learned to surf, (or so you think). If you fight it, you drown. If you resist or judge what is happening you drown. First, be determined to see it differently and truly. The only way to not drown is to go with the flow of it – to surrender to it, to ride it, to go into alignment with it, to join it. Do not give up because then you drown without even trying. If you align with the wave and join it, not turning your back on it but to surrender to it by attuning to it, your focus is then one of alignment and then joining with what is happening. It is like being in a skid on an icy road. If you don’t turn in the direction of the skid, you crash. Once in alignment with the skid, you are back in control and can go in a forward direction once again. Your energy joined with the wave and with Heaven can transform it first by bringing you peace and then bringing Truth to the illusion. What would have been a personal or global disaster can be turned around. Imagine that the disaster that is happening is heading toward a ‘deep six,’ an end of game kind of experience. It is now 6:10 pm on the clock of life on the way to a complete crash at 6:30. Yet if you join the force of the wave at 6:10, your joining can immediately take it, without going further down, to 6:50 without the need for it to go all the way down to 6:30, where after the ‘hard way’ and a difficult birth, the cycle then starts up again in a positive direction. Surrender saves time, pain and chaos, if you surrender, join and align with whatever is occurring. Joining and surrender are not losing. They are a way of having everyone win. This can happen only by your joining with the Holy Spirit as you are determined to perceive the person, situation or thing more truly.
Now, in any situation where you are ‘over your head,’ it is crucial to call for Heaven’s help. Your love and Heaven’s Love bring miracles. Look beyond the situation to Heaven’s answer and give your combined Love to the situation. This can bring the miracle, without the chaos that a disaster can bring about if you aren’t centered, and willing to look inside yourself where God awaits your awareness.
It is not God’s Will that you suffer in any way. The karmic catastrophes and even cataclysms coming in the last two months of the year and the beginning of 2027 can be completely dispelled. They have already been reduced but it can still be totally healed. Fear is an illusion and love heals fear. Heaven’s is pure Love and we can call on it. Joined with our love, it is a miracle. The dark energy can be transformed into an easy birth. September is the third month in a row where these karmic issues can be healed and then dissolved, where there can be an easy birth instead of a hard, traumatic birth. You can help bring about a time of emergence rather than emergency by accepting, forgiving, letting go and trust.
We are not here by accident at this important and fateful time in the world but by our design. We wanted to be here at this time of transition to help make an easy birth in order to bring about new possibilities and a better way. A determination to see things differently and forgive everything that disturbs our peace is what is needed. All of the personal healing we do now and all of the miracles we bring about, can help the world in this transition period. With so much unfolding now and in the coming months, it may be difficult to keep yourself centered in the next months, but it is imperative to do so. Trusting the process is trusting the Tao. It is using the power of your trust for a positive outcome. Meditate, forgive and heal so you stay as peaceful and centered as possible, so you are not knocked off your center. When you are sick, exhausted or emotionally depressed, it is easy to get knocked off your true path and be reactive and afraid, instead of feeling safe, sure, and whole. Putting your future in the Hands of God is especially helpful because if you do so, you know your job is to simply turn whatever is painful over to God to let Him handle everything. The more you join with God, the more you know where to turn for help in order to feel peace and make a difference in your life. God experiences joy when you let Him Love through you. (A Course in Miracles) Have faith and be happy.
Be vibrant and joyful. You can always choose this, no matter what is happening.
This helps the world because all of our minds are connected and both our attack and fearful thoughts as well as our healing influences everyone. To change your mind is not just a choice. It is a commitment to truth.
We create our own resistance. We make our own bad feelings. We do this as a result of judgment and tantrums. We want someone or something else to change and do it differently as if their acting badly was the reason for our upset rather than how we chose to perceive and respond to it. When we respond badly, we ignore the lesson we were meant to learn. When we try to get another to change, we act as if that were the answer. When we refuse to learn, we want others to change, and soon enough we get stuck in our own malaise. In such a case we are not helping or changing. We want things our way. We want things our way to support a certain belief we have about ourselves that is most precious to us that we are being called to let go of. In the name of our being right, we make other people wrong. That never works as this attitude generates its own resistance. You can argue, fight, manipulate, control, seduce, coerce or overpower, but if you are trying to get someone else to change, you are not being accountable for what you are dreaming. You are not being willing to change to have things be better. When you recognize that it is your dream and your choice that things are the way they are, you change your mind and heal yourself. Be determined to change what you see and experience. You do not recognize how it serves your hidden agendas. This is your excuse to hide rather than to forgive and thus to move forward to change “your dream.” We want to change the other. We are still not willing to change ourselves.
“To heal the world is but to change your mind about yourself.” (A Course in Miracles.)
Where you are stuck, you want someone else to change and it will show by the amount of your upset. You then become a character in someone else’s dream.
Take accountability and surrender to what is happening. Change the 6:10 to 6:50 in any situation by your change, forgiveness and alignment. Otherwise, you are part of the problem. When the world is diametrically opposed declaring the other side is wrong, it is the ‘pot calling the kettle black.’ It is our own split mind projected out. Get the joke. See where you are out of integrity and surrender to the wrong you see in others as if it were yourself because at a deeper level it is. When you change, what is in the mirror of the world changes. Only when you step forward will you heal. Trying to get someone to do it your way is a form of force and coercion still inside you, a form of your split mind and self-conflict. To really change give the problem to the Holy Spirit to undo for you. Trying to change another is the biggest problem in both life and relationships. It is the source of your pain and problem patterns. This can be let go of now. By changing yourself, you change the world. This lesson is what September is all about. Ask Heaven’s help to learn this lesson. It is crucial for an easy birth for yourself, those you love, and the world.
Chuck Spezzano
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September 2026
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