HEALING PERFECTIONISM is the card for today. Perfectionism is an inadequate defense against inadequacy. It is an attempt to prove we are loveable and even more loveable than others. We are driven by perfectionism whereas if we merely set the goal of perfectionism it would take the pushing of ourselves and others out of the picture allowing for a lot more success and ability to receive. In perfectionism we don’t feel good enough so no one is ever good enough for us; it is a nasty ego trap to always keep us feeling like a failure. Today is a good day to let go of perfectionism with its vicious circle of superiority-inferiority and competition instead of partnership that goes with it. Have a fine day of requitedness!

Chuck Spezzano, Psychology of Vision, Card of the Day, Perfectionism
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