HEALING SPECIALNESS is the card for today. Specialness is an ego need that holds us craving and demanding from others. When there is bonding there is natural recognition. Specialness on the other hand seeks to be different and is willing to go to painful lengths to get attention. At the heart of almost every problem and trauma there lurks the hidden dynamic of the attempt to be special to define ourselves. We hold people hostage to our need for specialness. Most people have confused specialness with love but love don’t hurt while specialness is insulted and hurt when we are not treated special. Today we can heal the need for specialness first by becoming aware of it and then by letting it go as the attachment it is that stops giving and receiving. Have beautiful day!!