HEALING THE BLACK WIDOW SHADOW is the card for today. This is the shadow that programs us to believes that sex from a woman (or our feminine side) is lethal. The female black widow spider invites the male over for lunch and a good time and they have a good time and then the male discovers he’s lunch. This has broken up many beautiful relationships or kept people out of relationships because of this mistaken belief. This is a confusion of sex, death and destructiveness. It is what the ego uses to block intimacy and love. This shadow, whether we are a man or woman, has been blocking our ability to join another and has kept self-hatred alive. It is a good day for invoking truth and letting this illusion go. Have a good one!