HEALING THE EXCUSE TO BE INDEPENDENT is the card for today. It speaks of the hidden payoff that is at the root of every problem or trauma. We were using it to separate and do things our way. Most people don’t have access to the unconscious mind that shows we wrote the script for those things as a way to do it ourselves on our own terms but today at least we begin to realize that independence has a huge price tag and it is bonding that has the roots and wings that we really want as this brings love and success. Today we heal the past and the mistakes we made that made someone else the ‘bad guy’ when we could have helped them instead if we had not been afraid of our gifts,purpose and destiny. Today is a really good day to get rid of the self-deception and become more of ourselves once more.