HEALING THE FEAR OF CHANGE is the card for today. Fear of change is one of the main dynamics of any problem so to clear it is to dissolve the problem . Problems and traumas represent the hidden wish to separate and do things our way .Yet, when we break bonding, we blame someone else for the loss of bonding . This locks in our guilt hiding under the blame. The guilt occurs with lost bonding as well as fear, resistance and feelings of inadequacy,all of which become a vicious circle. When we feel inadequate we feel fearful of the next step and resist it. This resistance shows as a problem . This sets up ambivalence about love and success because we would regain bonding and lose independence(not freedom) . HEALING THE FEAR OF CHANGE transforms all of that and once again allows love and success easily.