HEALING THE IDOL OF SPECIALNESS is the card for today. Specialness makes everything all about us and it is the great destroyer of relationships. All problems, emotions and ego exaggerations steal from the relationship unless we use all such aspects as fodder for healing and changing ourselves. With specialness we feel angry and insulted if we are not treated according to how we think we should be treated. Instead we could have relatedness, intimacy, sharing , bonding and the love that builds relationships. The idol of specialness is one that steals the enjoyment out of life and relationships…Have a beautiful day that comes from giving up this problem!!